9.21.2012

Kinfolk - Volume 4

I have been in love with Kinfolk magazine since its inception. In fact, before I'd ever heard of it I daydreamed of a beautiful entertaining magazine that felt more authentic to gatherings, craft, and beauty than anything you can find on the newsstands. Come to think of it I'm pretty sure I wrote about it when it first came out.

Anyway - Last winter Karen and I were fortunate enough to write / style / shoot (I wrote / we styled / she shot) a piece for them. Truth be told it was for their summer issue and we shot it in the dead of winter. In fact, I took at cab before sunrise to brooklyn in December so we could catch the first morning light, and I ever stripped down to a t-shirt for a shot.

It is a tiny little story but I am so honored to be including among so many super talented creative people. I dream of a life where I can do such a thing on a regular basis. For now, Ill ride this high for a while. Kinfolk can be purchased here.

Image courtesy of Karen Mordechai + Sunday Suppers.

9.19.2012

Spring 2013 NYFW

To be fair I haven't looked at all of the shows. But of those that I have looked at, here a are few pieces that caught my eye :


 Alexander Wang - I have no words - this is gorgeous. It is feminine and sexy, yet it has structure and and a masculinity to its confident lines.

 Phillip Lim will always have my heart. I love the weaving use of I heart NY t-shirts here.

 Prabal Gurung. Maybe my favorite evening dress Ive seen for the season. It has a Carolina classic femininity about it but is younger and edgier. I would pillage to wear this to one of my upcoming weddings.



Marc Jacobs just gets better and better. It is more wearable, less predictably him. I love how feminine these pieces are despite cloaking the body almost entirely.




Its rare for my Spring choices to be so devoid of color. Perhaps Ill return with a second round after I do a bit more digging...


Images Courtesy of Style.com

9.17.2012

Some of the best advice I've ever read ...

... That I happened upon this summer. It resonated so so strongly with the entire struggle of my past year, and years prior. You forget that not every great is born painting picassos or writing Joyce. You forget, when it's you sucking at something, that most of the beauty comes from that struggle and that most greats poured a lot of sweat, crumpled a lot of hard work into the trash, and got up every morning knowing they could do more. That they could be better.

seen on: the decorista

9.12.2012

The style may change, but picking out school supplies is as important to me now as it was in fourth grade - choosing the newest themed trapper keeper with its shiny plastic padding and Velcro closure. In fact, knowing what design means to me now it might even matter more. To me, the notebook I pull out says as much about my taste as the shoes I wear or color I paint my house. Call me crazy, but at least I know I'm in good company up here. I stumbled upon this guy, and a few others on a recent trip to John Derian just of the Bowery.

9.11.2012




Leonard Pitts words are with me every day, but especially today.

It's my job to have something to say.
They pay me to provide words that help make sense of that which troubles the American soul. But in this moment of airless shock when hot tears sting disbelieving eyes, the only thing I can find to say, the only words that seem to fit, must be addressed to the unknown author of this suffering.
You monster. You beast. You unspeakable bastard.
What lesson did you hope to teach us by your coward's attack on our World Trade Center, our Pentagon, us? What was it you hoped we would learn? Whatever it was, please know that you failed.
Did you want us to respect your cause? You just damned your cause.
Did you want to make us fear? You just steeled our resolve.
Did you want to tear us apart? You just brought us together.
Let me tell you about my people. We are a vast and quarrelsome family, a family rent by racial, social, political and class division, but a family nonetheless. We're frivolous, yes, capable of expending tremendous emotional energy on pop cultural minutiae - a singer's revealing dress, a ball team's misfortune, a cartoon mouse.
We're wealthy, too, spoiled by the ready availability of trinkets and material goods, and maybe because of that, we walk through life with a certain sense of blithe entitlement. We are fundamentally decent, though - peace-loving and compassionate. We struggle to know the right thing and to do it. And we are, the overwhelming majority of us, people of faith, believers in a just and loving God.
Some people - you, perhaps - think that any or all of this makes us weak. You're mistaken. We are not weak. Indeed, we are strong in ways that cannot be measured by arsenals.
Yes, we're in pain now. We are in mourning, and we are in shock. We're still grappling with the unreality of the awful thing you did, still working to make ourselves understand that this isn't a special effect from some Hollywood blockbuster, isn't the plot development from a Tom Clancy novel.
Both in terms of the awful scope of their ambition and the probable final death toll, your attacks are likely to go down as the worst acts of terrorism in the history of the United States and, probably, the history of the world. You've bloodied us as we have never been bloodied before.
But there's a gulf of difference between making us bloody and making us fall. This is the lesson Japan was taught to its bitter sorrow the last time anyone hit us this hard, the last time anyone brought us such abrupt and monumental pain. When roused, we are righteous in our outrage, terrible in our force. When provoked by this level of barbarism, we will bear any suffering, pay any cost, go to any length, in the pursuit of justice.
I tell you this without fear of contradiction. I know my people, as you, I think, do not. What I know reassures me. It also causes me to tremble with dread of the future.
In the days to come, there will be recrimination and accusation, fingers pointing to determine whose failure al- lowed this to happen and what can be done to prevent it from happening again. There will be heightened security, misguided talk of revoking basic freedoms. We'll go forward from this moment sobered, chastened, sad. But determined, too. Unimaginably determined.
You see, the steel in us is not always readily apparent. That aspect of our character is seldom understood by people who don't know us well. On this day, the family's bickering is put on hold.
As Americans, we will weep; as Americans, we will mourn; and as Americans, we will rise in defense of all that we cherish.
So I ask again: What was it you hoped to teach us? It occurs to me that maybe you just wanted us to know the depths of your hatred. If that's the case, consider the message received. And take this message in exchange: You don't know my people. You don't know what we're capable of.
You don't know what you just started.
But you're about to learn.

9.08.2012

Summer


I promised myself I would get back here by this week. I mean, I promised myself I'd be back here all summer but when I realized it was moving as quickly as the school year if not quicker, I dropped the ball. So here is an attempt to begin again.

My summer is rapidly coming to a close. For three months I have been working in an office, working for friends, catching up with friends while they don't live a train ride away, and dealing with the more colossal moments of life that seem to come in numbers. You know what they say :: When it rains, it pours.

A friend and I have talked many times about the scene of Magnolia with Tom Cruise and Philip Seymour Hoffman where it starts raining frogs. The movie jumps from story line to story line that previously had no common thread, and in each it is teeming frogs. The characters, understandably, are shocked and all activity ceases as they watch in awe--frogs hitting their windshields, windows, and heads. And just as suddenly as it started, it stops. The world is quiet. And every scene slowing begins again. Those that were eating continue eating, conversing, walking, driving. And no one ever talks about it again. It's not to say when our worlds crumble we ignore it and never talk about it again, but we do learn that life goes on. When events that are sadder or stranger than we ever imagined possible smack us in the face, we still walk into the office the next morning with a smile on our face, we still meet our friends for dinner, and life keeps rolling on around us, so must we.

It's a crazy phenomena that speaks to the layers and multiplicities of life that are constantly present. There is so much sweetness and so much sorrow that can be wrapped up in the same week, day, minute. I wish I could write about it as eloquently as Virginia Woolf or Jonathan Franzen, but instead Ill just continue to marvel at the wonder of it all.

There were so many sweet moments this summer and I feel so fortunate to have the people and family that I do in my life. I have so missed writing. Fingers are crossed that it works it's way back into my routine.

*Image taken last weekend in Montauk, New York at the Montauket Inn.